WANITA & EGO

Mcamana nk tahu kwn pompuan anda sorang yg ego? Sikap ego ni mrentasi sempadan jantina, yes i totally agree, tp kbetulan pristiwa ni trjadi pada aku yg kebetulan jantinanya adalah 'wanita'..thru my experience, i once...& still hv...a female fren, lets name her U. She's quite egoistic & self centred. There r a few characteristics i noticed about her, to which i labeled her as EGO. I befriended her since the year 2000...knew her thru IRC up till now, tp dah jd agak kurng rapat & dh kurng kontek-mengontek.

Dia selalu suka...

1. Puji diri, walaupon dia x suka merendah2kan org lain...still remembered she said "biaselah i kan anak dumex". She's a bright student in her alma mater, just keep it to urself ok!

2. Tayang result exam yg banyak A & A-, the good thing is that she didn't reveal her name in her own blog,than its ok. But people still knows dat is you, untuk apa u tayang result u?to tell the ppl out there dat u r a brite student?who cares anyway...u studied & scored 4 ur own sake.

3. Puji2 org sblm mtak tolong, words like "u're such an angel..ure a wonderful kind of human being etc, can u pls book a ticket 4 me?" poured up ur h/p screen, tp bila kita reply mtak mahap x dpt nk tolong, then trus diam witout replying even the slightest "ok lah no prob"....apa tandanya tu?marah, kecewa sbb x dpt hulurkan prtolongan?whres the courtesy?

4. She likes ppl to remember her birthday, read her blog whatsoever, but she didn't cared about others - weblog (i hv told & sms her my weblog, but still she asked for my blogs URL), birthday (i wished her birthday, in return i asked her when's my birthday, dia x cp yg dia x ingat, & she could simply asked for it, yet she nagged in her blog saying that she had so many frens & didnt hv time to remember all of them birthday...alahai susah sgt ke nk ckp "sorry la i lupa, whens ur birthday arr?"...see?mudah jer kan.

Untuk aku snaraikan smuanya, aku x mampu, plus x elok kalu trlalu ikot prasaan & prasangka yg mlampau..Konklusinya, mungkin aku dlm list kwn2 nya yg 'kurang pnting'...than its ok lah 4 me..not disappointed, just a lil bit annoyed. Kalu dia trbaca notes ni, ure still my fren, i accept u 4 what u r, moga per'kawan'an kita berkekalan...lets concentrate on the similarities, not the differences..ciao!

CERPELAI

Cerpelai, haiwan persis tikus bersaiz XXL, commonly known as mongoose or weasel in English, called ‘jebon’ dalam loghat utara, considered as haiwan yg dimusuhi manusia, especially pnduduk kampong, due to its nature, feeding on livestock (chicken)…nasib haiwan yg diklasifikasikan oleh Mergastua sbg haiwan yg dilindungi pada hr Kamis lepas, i.e the 1st day of puasa agak kurg bernasib baik, ia masuk prangkap that were meant to lure rat from the bushes at the backyard.

For some of you ppl out there who have never seen one, I manage to snap photos of the beast while in captivity

Haiwan ni usually mngelak dr brtembung dgn manusia, tp bila dalam keadaan trdesak mmg agresif & sedia untuk mnyerang...look at those teeth, crikey!!

Aku kurung sehari semalam, then aku let it free 2moro morning..kalu ikot mak & ayah aku, depa sruh rejam dlm ayaq sampai lemas, mujur aku dpt convince depa & bg gertak skit yg haiwan ni dilindungi, lg pon apa la dosa binatang ni kat kita...kan?

RAKAN BARU,DUNIA BARU

Sabtu 9 September, aku berkesempatan ke kenduri seorang rakan kpd rakan, yg pada mulanya aku refuse untuk pergi, dgn alasan aku x dijemput, plus tuan knduri pon x knal aku, tp demi untuk tidak mnghampakan harapan & pelawaan rakan ku, Faizul yg turun dari KL bersama 2 lagi rakannya, aku pun dengan rela hati pergi ke kenduri tersebut…

Kenduri berlangsung d sbuah kampong dlm daerah Pokok Sena, 30minits perjalanan dari rumah aku, on the way ke sana aku kna fetch dua org ‘rakan baru’-Syafiq & Nuri…kami smpai d rumah knduri around 2 pm.

Apa yg nak aku ceritakan di sini ialah suasana knduri d rumah tersebut, FYI majority pnduduk kampong tersebut beraliran Syiah, ‘rakan2 baru’ ku ni jgak dalam aliran Syiah…so sesambil aku menjamu selera, aku perhatikan keadaan skeliling – the atmosphere, the ppl, the flow of the feast itself - xdak perbezaan dgn knduri org2 kita (baca Ahlus Sunnah Wal Jamaah), & I am talking about the present situation, x trmasuk upacara ijab & kabul prior to the knduri…sempat juga aku toleh2 & ushar2 any familiar faces, unfortunately x ada lgsung…totally new environment & new faces.

Aku juga terharu dgn layanan & sambutan yg depa berikan kpd ‘org asing’ spt aku hehe, considered as org asing laa sbb berlainan mazhab kan, & aku berasa amat tenang dlm situasi begitu, aku dperkenalkan dgn tetamu2, pengantin lelaki & bapak pngntin lelaki, & kemesraan yg wujud pada saat itu semacam sudah lama terjalin...mnghapus tanggapan aku slama ini yg golongan Syiah ini extreme & suka bermusuh dgn ahlus sunnah, aku bersyukur & berasa senang hati dlm keadaan begitu.

Apa yg dapat aku simpulkan d sini, propaganda & dakyah mngatakan Syiah ini golongan sesat & extreme adalah salah & perlu diperbetulkan. Sedikit sebanyak aku dapat blajar dari ‘rakan2 baru’ ku ini ttg perbezaan dalam pndapat & pegangan mrk berbanding kita…aku tringat kata2 Faizul “knali PAS bukn mlalui UMNO….” & terbukti kata2 itu benar..ciao!

Faizul (kaca mata hitam) & tuan rumah yg aku x ingat nama, pakai kopiah putih & t-shirt pagoda